Rock your life!
The relationship between a guy and a girl is complex to be framed in few rules. Love is not guy's ultimate aim in life; Having a caring lover is greatest achievement or rather dream for a girl. The difference in both perspective is more than usually expected. Few funny quotes from guys who got frustrated with their girls:
"All girls are cute chicks as long as they are in distance"
"You can face a problem, but you can't live with a problem, right?"
Even though guys crib a lot about their girls, ultimately we need that girl's love. We need someone to grow with, grow old with, share our visions with and share the love with. I am getting a perception that girls will never accept to their mistakes. Ultimately at some point of time, the guy has to adjust to that character of girls and keep the life boat rocking.
As often quoted, ogden nash words on love and life:
“To keep your marriage brimming,
With love in the loving cup,
Whenever you're wrong, admit it;
Whenever you're right, shut up”
Few of my observations about life. You are most welcome to argue/comment on this.
Don't take your life partner for granted. Just because he/she accepts your proposal, don't take them for granted.
Ego fights can't be avoided. But someone should be matured enough to break the ice and smile after the fights.
Don't go with expectation for love from your partner. When you tie a nuptial knot, say onto yourself, that you will love your partner all the time, irrespecive of what mistake he/she does.
For guys, step into your girl's shoes to see the problem from their view point. And most important, don't expect her to step into your shoes to see your view point. Afterall if your girl win in the argument, you win in your life.
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12 comments:
> the guy has to adjust to that character of girls and keep the life boat rocking.
If the guy rocks in that boat, it'll tumble. >:O)
> guys crib a lot about their girls, ultimately we need that girl's love.
"That"s never the case. One can't just ease out when he is already uneasy. Nausea will prevail.
> Just because he/she accepts your proposal, don't take them for granted.
I would like to rephrase this sentence, as "Just because he/she proposes you; you not wanting to miss the opportunity, don't take him/her for granted."
> And most important, don't expect her to step into your shoes to see your view point. Afterall if your girl win in the argument, you win in your life.
Its not about winning arguments. I guess, its about accepting the fact that everybody has a shoe.
A shoe that fits the feet of the person. A shoe that cares for the person to lead a good walk in the way of life. A shoe that kicks the hurdles that come in the person's way. A shoe that gives good grip. A shoe like a shoeflower with radiance & vibrance (not stinky). >:O) This is my shoe & I want "people" to consider it. Cheers.
so ur getting ready to enter the world of marriage?adunala dhaan so many posts on relationships?
bro! u r still reeling love after effects. You see...I tink its true like what ppl say...we have to wait for da best and beat the rest!
@Ran
I hope your gal listens to these views of yours!
There is some point in life where we (guys) gotto adjust maadi. I always found Gal's ego more powerful to let her come out and say sorry for the wrong doings.
@Vatsan
no da. I felt gals are like this... there is some relationship of the topic discussed to my life and love. But no move towards marriage or patchup.
will tell u if anything of that sort happens
@Gp
thats true. I am not yet out of my love and its after effects.
Let her listen. I don't want ever to hear anything from her. I'm done with everything.
hmmm.. hmmm..
i really dono wht to say.
=ammu=
@Ran
u never talked abt ur love story. I was thoroughly surprised when u hinted abt it. I am proud of u bro that u could control ur depression and worst emotions when things dont work in love. great. cheers.
be happy.
@Ammu
ya dear. this is all guy's world polambals abt girls. nothing serious. I was saying wht i know/understand abt girls attitude. and all others are also pouring their views. may be we are looking like against womanhood, but we are not. ;)
We respect all girls and womanhood!
The character of vivek comes to my mind. In Tamil film “Thil” he likes to know girls mind, and finally he changed to girl, so it can be easy to him to understand the girls!! I think girls are easy going persons, if both has true love on them.
Good and funny thoughts here bro:)
@jeevan
nope bro. girls are easy one to understand ever in this world.
intha song kettu irukingala
aarum athu aazham illey!
athu serum kadalum aazham illey!
aazham ethu aiya,
athu antha pombala manasu thanya!!
old tamil song...
romba true word....:)
Some1 is really acting indifrnt ;) for the past couple of days :)
Wtsup?? Y dont u give a open update abt wts hapng around :D
Curiousity killign the cat u see :P
@pon,
no updates dear! I am not behaving indifferently, I just kick started a discussion which i felt!
if at all any updates from my side, i will def keep u and all my dear bloggies posted. seriya?
will keep this things into mind GURUji:)
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